Monday, September 12, 2011

A mothers Touch

Kari finally to get to hold her baby. This picture makes me cry. I can't imagine what she going through. She is one tuff cookie. I am going to post Talbey's story below. Please continue to pray for him.

.About Praying for the Lord's healing touch over Talbey Ahlum

Description Talbey Ahlum is in the PICU at Arkansas Children's Hospital. He is fighting for his life as he battles an infection that has taken over his 3 year old body. He is currently in a coma and on dialysis. Please stand with us in prayer as we ask God for a miracle. We trust that the Lord is holding Talbey right now and that He is going to heal him. Although this is such a confusing time, we know that Go...d works in mysterious ways. Please lift up the family over these next few hours and days, as the doctors try to figure out what is causing Talbey to be so sick.





The story, the time line;

**** Please note, My disclosure, I’m not a Dr., I’m not a writer, and I have not been perfectly focused as I have tried to explain some basics with detail. So read on and understand we have had quite the journey already and we are aware we have a much larger journey to go…



Starting from the beginning – tues morning, (Aug 23rd) Talbey woke in the morning hoping to go to pre-school but had a pretty good fever, around 101 degrees. So since Dad was staying home this day to work on the crafts, Kari went to her shop to start the set up for the Frisco Fest. After dad and Talb’s played some angry birds on the computer, and after some lunch Talbey fell asleep on the couch around noon. Around 3pm Dad had to wake Talbey to go pick up Gavin at Gavin’s School (Gav was on his 2nd week of Kindergarten). Talbey was feeling perfectly fine as after Dad and Gavin went to Walmart to grab a few things for snacks and dinner for the evening. Once home Gav and Talb played some more angry birds, and watch their new favorite movie Rio (super cute movie by the way) and during the movie Talbey mentioned he was tired again, so he took a nap for the second time of the day, this was a sign that he was not feeling so good, as he love to play with his bros. Once Kari got home from the shop around 6:30pm, she jumped on Dad because she said “did you know he had such a large fever”, and because he fell asleep and didn’t have a fever, the answer was no, but Kari was concerned because it was around 103 or 104. Kari proceeded to contact the local walk in clinic (urgent care). They told her that it probably made sense to just give the usual Tylenol and Ibuprofen mix throughout the night and get him to the medical clinic tomorrow (wed). So we made it thru the night not too bad, and the next morning Kari took Talbey to the Lowell Medical Clinic to see Dr Berry Allen ( a great children’s Dr of Northwest Arkansas). During the visit, Dr. Allen noticed a slight rash on Talbey and was concerned about his high temperature and externally didn’t see reasons for such symptoms. So he ordered some blood work on Talbey and the results showed that his Platelets were on the lower side and it was a concern. Dr. Allen gave Talbey a shot of antibiotics and scheduled a follow up visit for Thursday morning @ 10:30am. Talbey fault throughout the rest of the day not feeling great but was still somewhat himself, playing at the Family Matters shop and watching Tom (Hom as Talbey would pronounce it)& Jerry for a few hours.

Once we got home that Wednesday night from the shop he took a nap and around 8pm he was in the sit and stand stroller for the walk we all took that night. He was feeling ok, but obviously he was not perfect, because he didn’t want to ride his own bike. Once ready for bed Wednesday night he started to vomit a bit. Around midnight of Thursday morning he started to vomit and had restroom problems about once every 1.5 hours. Kari was pretty much up all night with him until 6am, when dad took over the Talbey duties. He vomited one more time around 8am and then fell asleep. Kari and dad thought about taking him in before the clinic scheduled appointment, but since he fell asleep after the 8am episode, we decided to let him get some rest. He woke around 9:40ish and we loaded up to head to the clinic a bit early. We arrived @ the clinic at 10am and we went immediately to the lab area for blood work. Once dad carried to the lab area, Talbey was very much lethargic, so much so that he didn’t even notice that he pooped himself a little; thus we started having some serious concerns. Once the lab work was completed we went to meet with Dr. Allen again. He was very concerned about his dehydration and pretty much said it was time to admit to the hospital. During this time, the blood results came in and the concern raised because a lot of his #’s were way off. His platelets were even lower than the previous day, and now his white blood cell count was super high. So he was very concerned so much so that he wanted Talbey to move rooms and to get an IV started immediately. So within minutes he and his staff started searching for veins to start the IV. Talbey was immediately put on oxygen and we could tell is was serious because the staff was pretty frantic. After about 15 minutes the one nurse found a good vein and soon thereafter the ambulance was there ready to take Talbs to the hospital. It was amazing that Dr. Allen wanted and demanded that he ride with Talbey in the ambulance to the hospital. So Kari and Dr. Allen took Talbey to the Mercy Medical Center/Hospital. Once settled in at the hospital Dr. Allen set his demands for the Mercy staff and so thereafter he went back to the clinic to get caught up on his cancelled appointments, due to Talbey’s unexpected morning. It was about 12-noon that Talbey got settled in and he started making a pretty good recovery. At about 2pm he stated to get better but he was very very exhausted because they were searching for a second IV input and stuck him at least 8 times if not more. So after the Mercy staff gave up on sticking his dehydrated body, Talbey took a good nap, and he seemed to be doing fairly good. He seemed so good that dad went to pick up Gavin at school and went home to keep Gavin away from the situation. At about 4:30 Kari called and mentioned that the staff said that Talbey was getting much much worse, and on a scale of 1-10 of sickness he was approaching a 9. By the time Gavin and Dad got to the hospital @ 5pm, they were making the decision to get Talbey to the Arkansas Children’s Hospital of Little Rock. He was going to get life flighted via the Angle 1 helicopter. Dad hopped into the car immediately with the hope to beat the chopper to Little Rock. Just before he left, they needed to put a breathing tube into the little guy, and just before they did so, we kissed the little guy buy and he was so scared, it was so sad. Kari, Jo, Gavin and Graham waited for Talbey to get loaded onto the Angle 1, and about 7:45ish he took off to LRock.

Dad did just beat the chopper and once Talbey arrived at the ACH it was about 8:50ish. Dad patiently waited until about 11pm to finally see Talbey. The ACH staff was very much working hard and therow to get Talbey stable. He was not in a good position. Talbey at this time had just gone through a Septic Shock. Meaning his body got to the point that it no longer could fight whatever infection/bacteria was in his blood that his body shut down. Basically this meant his boby naturally was no longer going to serve his extremities, rather it was only going to serve the bodies main organs/systems. Because of this the staff was unable to find a great blood pressure (BP) reading and his blood pressure was very low for certain, in the 60’s. After pumping him with 3 times the recommended fluids to get his BP under control, they then needed to start figuring out what had caused his septic shock. The staff really needed to do a minor surgery to put in a Center Line, which allows the staff to get a much more accurate BP reading. They couldn’t do that minor surgery until they filled him with more platelets because he was so short of them form the initial illness. As they were waiting for the platelets from the lab, he had another pretty large episode with some low BP problems. The staff worked hard to get it back in stable condition. At this point Talbey was fighting for his life for sure. The staff pumped tons of BP medicine fluids into his system to help stable his low pressure. This made Talbey swell and bload because within the past 3 hours they filled him full with fluids. At this point Talbey was not a pleasant sight to see, nor was it even imaginable that just 24 hrs ago, he seemed just a bit sick with a high temp and a slight low on platelets.

Around 12-midnight of Friday morning (Aug 26th) the staff finally completed the entries of the platelets and they completed the successful entry of the central line, BP measuring mechanism. The next move for the staff was to find where this infection came from, what was it that shut his system down so quick. They seemed to have some concern about his abdomen area, so they ordered for a full CT, cat scan for that area. After about an hour wait for the dye to get fully into his abdomen area, they then took Talbey out of his Intensive care room for the 1st time. During this time, Kari, Jo, Gavin, & Graham was just arriving to Little Rock. After getting the family established at the La Quinta Inn of Downtown Little Rock, Kari joined dad at the intensive care unit at Arkansas Children’s Hospital. When Kari arrived to see Talbey for the 1st time, it was not pretty, as they just were returning Talbey from the cat scan, and during the event, they had to remove his ventilator so that he could get into the machine. Because the ventilator was set for such high pressure (peak), once the tube was taken from his lungs basically all the fluid, that was pumped into his body due to the demanded fluids to control the BP. Once the tube was removed that overloaded fluid filled the gap and filled much of Talbey’s lungs with fluid. If it didn’t fill has actual lung capacity, but it did fill in around his actual lungs which immediately effected his now controlled BP problem. Because of that incident, it definitely added towards his recovery time, because they had to go up on the peak pressure on his ventilator. Basically the rest of the evening was spend allowing him to remain stable by controlling the meds. The only other focus was to try to insert more IV’s into Talbey’s body. At this time he only had 3 entry ways, and there was a demand for many more.

MORE TO COME, as time permits. See the wall on the facebook page to know of the recent updates

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Monday, July 11, 2011

Going of week 7

The last two weeks I have been busy getting ready for the Enid Craft show. For the kids the summer kind of came to a stop. We didn't do much. The 4th came and gone. The first year that I didn't work fireworks. Were where in a burn banned and it effected the firework selling. Probably on of our worst years. It was kind of weird not working the 4th, we were all kind of lost on what to do.




The kids headed out to Gage for lunch with Nana Barnes and I headed to the firework stand to see if they needed help, however they never needed it. The kids came back that evening we finally decided that maybe we should cook out and try and enjoy a 4th for once.


After a yummy cookout we headed to the town firework show. Which I haven't seen up close for over 20 years, we usually watch from the firework stand. So the kids and Aunt Ash headed out to the show. The kids were excited and were ready, but that was short lived. The show began and kids were terrified. They were both crying and screaming so we had to put them in the car. So much for that. I can't say I like fireworks either. I think they are a waste of money.

 Boom there goes 100.00 bucks.
 Another hundred
Another hundred
 It lasted about 15 minutes. It was okay but not too impressed.
After the 4th I had to get busy for the craft show. The house was out of control for a week and I worked my butt off to get new blocks done.
I need to new space.
The craft show was one day so that was nice. But it was hot, the ac wasn't working when were unpacking our stuff but they finally got it fixed before it opened. Terri and I are living and learning with every craft show. We are super excited about getting our space on looking better and looking like a store front. We have a couple craft shows that we are looking forward to. I think we have decided we need to go bigger so we can make some money. The last three craft shows have been 25- 30 vendors. We had many comments on our stuff and that was encouraging.
We definitely need a bigger space. 10x10 just isn't big enough. I am going to work on looking on cabinets or shelves to display my blocks.

Onto the next craft show in a couple months.


Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Week 4 of Summer Break

I'm alittle late  posting week 4. Week 5 is almost already over. Over week 4 we went on a little vacation to the city. It was nice to have Mike for four whole days and kids ate it up. First we started our vacation to Clay's 1st Birthday. He loved his first taste of chocolate cake.
 
After Clay's birthday the kids took a quick dip in the motel swimming pool before we headed to Cars 2 Movie in bricktown. The movie wasn't much of a success. Zach didn't have a nap and set about 15 minutes and then through a fit and so Mike and Zach went and walked around Bricktown while Kailey and I finished the show. I don't think I liked it as much as the 1st one.

Sunday we headed out to the OKC Zoo. It was only 108 degrees outside. It was hot so we started the trip with the tram and took a trip around the zoo. The kids really enjoyed the ride. Alot of the animals were hiding in the shade, I don't blame them.

The kids enjoyed the Kid Zoo. Where they got to pet goats and play in the water.


The monkeys were our favorite. They are soo funny.

 Wow, Zach loved the carousel.
After the rides we headed to the Sea Lion show. It was really good. Kailey was really impressed with the Sea Lions. Zach didn't care really he was tired by then and needed a nap. So after Sea Lions we went and cooled down in the water.


Zach calmed down and cooled off so we decided that we would get to the lions, monkeys and elephants before had another breakdown.



Mommy the lion is coming to get us. It was too funny, Kailey thought the Lion was going to get her.

He just wanted to lay beside them.

The newest elephant born in March. It was soo cute.

Our little vacation was fun. We headed back home after zoo, it was a long ride home with two kids fighting and tired. Either one feel asleep. But it was good to get out of town for a couple days. But unfortunately it was back the real world. Kailey had a ballgame. Mike had another day off so he was able to go. He took his birthday off. So after the game we went out to eat and had a little birthday party for him.



Happy 31st Birthday!!! It was great to have four days of a husband and a daddy.

Friday, June 24, 2011

Ready for Vacation

We are all backed and ready to go on our mini vacation. Ready to have some fun with the kiddos and relax alittle from the long hot summer days. Not sure if we will escape from the hot hot weather but we are going to try to enjoy our mini vacation. The kids are super excited to go to the zoo and Cars 2 movie.

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Week 3

Week three went by too quickly. The the summer days have been going to fast for that it doesn't seem there is enough hours in the day to get everything I need to get done. This last weekend I had a Arts Festival in Arnett. It went pretty well. I also had my first order for the boutique in town. What was I thinking. This is the Korky bow process. Cooking the ribbon to make them curl and then I had to cut the ribbon and finally make them into bows and flip flops. After a week of hard work. I had 20 different bows and 4 pair of flip flops. With boutique orders and the up coming craft show in July I'm beyond busy.


 
A quick picture of the finished product. I took pictures of all the bows so I can remember what they look like so when I have another order.


New Korky Hats, I just made one to see if she would like them and she loved them so I have another order to do plus more flip flops. 

Besides me being super busy this week 3 of summer there hasn't been much more excitement except Zach not keeping his diaper on. He is taking interest in peeing in the potty but he thinks it is funny so I don't think he is to interested in the serious business of getting started. Its a little too early for me to so we will see.

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Wordless Wednesday...IT'S A GIRL

I'm going to have a little niece!